I am a week late. I’m not sure what happened, but I will get this posted before we host our family for a joint birthday party.
Ellie, you are our koala bear, the one who doesn’t let go, the one who just needs some reassurance. You are talk about nothing … sometimes just to hear yourself talk, I think. But other times you reach deep in your conversations.
At bedtime the other night, you asked me, “Mommy, are there some people that don’t like people like J?” (J is a student in her class in a wheelchair that is fairly non-verbal.) I said, “Yes, Ellie.” And then we talked about how people used to treat them like they were stupid, and they would put them places where no one saw there. And I explained how they used to not go to school like they do now, but there were people that thought that was unfair, and now they can. Then, we prayed, like we do every night. And you asked God to help people who didn’t like those like J. to know that J. was just like them in many ways. And I thought, She’s got it. She understands this love thing.
You like to try new things – when you’re ready to, and sometimes with a lot of encouragement.
You can be embarrassed by almost anything I do – cheering at a game, dancing while we walk, me talking to someone I pass by.
You laugh freely.
You play teacher, read books (quietly and aloud to your class), bake, create, draw, and play babies.
You also create small messes, forget what I ask you to do, interrupt in your excitement, and put your foot down about some things. But that’s okay. It tells me you have some independence growing in you and your own personality.
I mentioned the quote I put on my desk calendar for Madison being perfect. The one I chose for you is equally perfect. It says, “She is delightfully chaotic, a beautiful mess. Lover her is a splendid adventure.”
Ellie, you are bring joy to our lives. I hope you have a splendid adventure as you fly through year 8! Be who God created you to be, love those around you with abandon, and stand up for what is right. We are so excited to see where God leads you.